{"id":7137,"date":"2014-08-23T16:16:28","date_gmt":"2014-08-23T16:16:28","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2014-08-23T16:16:28","modified_gmt":"2014-08-23T16:16:28","slug":"divorci-psikologet-ja-cfare-prinderit-duhet-te-shmangin-perballe-femijes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ndiqparate.al\/?p=7137","title":{"rendered":"Divorci, psikolog\u00ebt: Ja \u00e7far\u00eb prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb shmangin p\u00ebrball\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs"},"content":{"rendered":"
Nj\u00eb raport i fundit nga Open Data Albania<\/span> tha se numri i divorceve n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri ka ardhur gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb rritje, ku rezulton se 16 n\u00eb 100 martesa p\u00ebrfunduan n\u00eb ndarje vet\u00ebm vitin e shkuar.\n<\/div>\n
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\u201c\u2026koeficienti prej 15.7 divorce p\u00ebr nj\u00ebqind martesa n\u00eb vitin 2013 d\u00ebshmon p\u00ebr nj\u00eb etap\u00eb t\u00eb re t\u00eb modelit social t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb shqiptare. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vit p\u00ebr \u00e7do nj\u00ebqind martesa q\u00eb realizohen gjasht\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb n\u00eb divorce\u201d,- thuhej n\u00eb raportin e ODA-s.\n<\/div>\n
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Psikologia shkollore Klajdina Hodaj n\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr Gazet\u00ebn IDEA apelon q\u00eb \u00e7iftet q\u00eb zgjedhin t\u2019i japin fund ligj\u00ebrisht martes\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje edhe pasojat q\u00eb divorci shkakton tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Hodaj liston disa nga veprimet dhe sjelljet q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb shmangin gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj faze t\u00eb jet\u00ebs n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos d\u00ebmtohen f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. \n<\/div>\n
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Si ndikon divorci i prind\u00ebrve tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt?\n<\/div>\n
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Ndikimi i divorcit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve shfaqet ndryshe tek f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt shfaqin kryesisht sjellje agresive, b\u00ebhen t\u00eb pashoq\u00ebruesh\u00ebm, krijojn\u00eb var\u00ebsi, nuk afrohen leht\u00eb n\u00eb rrethin social ku b\u00ebjn\u00eb pjes\u00eb. Por mbyllen n\u00eb vetvete, ndjejn\u00eb pasiguri dhe shfaqin shenja pa lumturie. K\u00ebto sjellje jan\u00eb t\u00eb theksuara m\u00eb shum\u00eb vitet e para t\u00eb divorcit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve dhe zbehen me kalimin e koh\u00ebs.\n<\/div>\n
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Ju jeni n\u00eb kontakt me nx\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs nga 6-15 vje\u00e7, a i ndajn\u00eb ata problemet familjare me ju?\n<\/div>\n
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Kjo varet nga mosha dhe nga ndjeshm\u00ebria e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Ka f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb vijn\u00eb me d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e tyre tek psikologia e shkoll\u00ebs edhe pse jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojtur, por pasi fitojn\u00eb siguri fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb shprehen p\u00ebr problematikat e tyre shqet\u00ebsuese, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb arsimin fillor, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl kryesisht referohen n\u00eb seanca k\u00ebshillimi nga m\u00ebsuesi, nga gjysh\u00ebrit apo nga njeri prej prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.\n<\/div>\n
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T\u2019i rikthemi ndarjes s\u00eb prind\u00ebrve, si reflekton ajo n\u00eb sjelljen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, adoleshent ose n\u00eb prag adoleshence?\n<\/div>\n
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N\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e rasteve prind\u00ebrit gjat\u00eb divorcit kan\u00eb m\u00eb pak koh\u00eb, v\u00ebmendje dhe p\u00ebrkushtim ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Gjithashtu prind\u00ebrit ndryshojn\u00eb sjelljen ndaj tyre dhe kjo pa diskutim q\u00eb i m\u00ebrzit f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Pik\u00ebrisht kur f\u00ebmija k\u00ebrkon m\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendje se kurr\u00eb, ata nuk e kan\u00eb dhe jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar nga kjo histori, por dhe gjendja e tyre e r\u00ebnduar emocionale sjell pasoja t\u00eb ndryshme pa anashkaluar k\u00ebtu dhe shfaqjen e shenjave depresive.\n<\/div>\n
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A ke njohur raste kur divorci i prind\u00ebrve i ka \u00e7uar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb p\u00ebrjetime ekstreme dhe n\u00eb shfaqjen e shenjave depresive?\n<\/div>\n
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Reagimet emocionale t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb baze dhe t\u00eb familjes ku jan\u00eb rritur apo ku b\u00ebjn\u00eb pjes\u00eb. Ka raste kur pas divorcit prindi kujdestar nuk e lejon f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb takohet me prindin tjet\u00ebr ose ka ndodhur q\u00eb f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb munduar t\u00eb pajtoj\u00eb prind\u00ebrit duke organizuar di\u00e7ka n\u00eb fsheht\u00ebsi (si psh. Takim) , jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk ka arritur t\u2019i pajtoj\u00eb, por ka marr\u00eb si \u201cshp\u00ebrblim\u201d ofendime dhe prind\u00ebri ka shfaqur agresivitet ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.\n<\/div>\n
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Rastet me ekstreme jan\u00eb ato raste ku f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb si kan\u00eb krijuar mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e takimit me prindin q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndar\u00eb, por edhe i \u00ebsht\u00eb mohuar ekzistenca e tij, duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb se t\u00eb ka vdekur mami ose babi edhe pse f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb i vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm q\u00eb prindin e ka gjall\u00eb.\n<\/div>\n
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N\u00eb k\u00ebto raste f\u00ebmija shfaq gjendje paniku, konfuzion, b\u00ebhet armiq\u00ebsor, mban n\u00eb vetvete ndjenj\u00ebn e fajit, ka lodhje mendore dhe fizike gjithashtu shfaq mospranim n\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e rasteve. Por pa anashkaluar dhe rastet kur f\u00ebmija preferon t\u00eb hesht\u00eb duke vuajtur n\u00eb vetvete.\n<\/div>\n
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Si duhet t\u00eb sillen prind\u00ebrit kur jan\u00eb para, gjat\u00eb ose pas divorcit?\n<\/div>\n
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N\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit kan\u00eb vendosur t\u00eb divorcohen duhet t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb t\u00eb dy nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn p\u00ebr ta informuar se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb apo do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmija mos t\u00eb traumatizohet n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.\n<\/div>\n
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Gjate divorcit prind\u00ebrit, pavar\u00ebsisht problemeve t\u00eb tyre, duhet t\u2019i p\u00ebrkushtohen dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve sepse ata kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb m\u00eb shume se kurr\u00eb p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendjen e tyre.\n<\/div>\n
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Prind\u00ebrit t\u00eb dy duhet t\u00eb interesohen n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb p\u00ebr ecurin\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb m\u00ebsime, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmija do t\u00eb ndihet m\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb sy t\u00eb bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebve q\u00eb i kan\u00eb prind\u00ebrit bashk\u00eb.\n<\/div>\n
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Prind\u00ebrit e ndar\u00eb nuk duhet t\u2019u flasin keq f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebr babain ose n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tyre.\n<\/div>\n
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F\u00ebmija duhet t\u00eb paralajm\u00ebrohet p\u00ebr ndryshimet q\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebrballet, Psh: Ndryshimi i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, shkoll\u00ebs, etj.\n<\/div>\n
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F\u00ebmij\u00ebve duhet t\u2019i mund\u00ebsohet takimi me prindin tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndar\u00eb dhe mos t\u2019i mohohet kjo e drejt\u00eb.\n<\/div>\n
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N\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit pas divorcit mund t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb nj\u00eb gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb diskutuar p\u00ebr problemet rreth f\u00ebmij\u00ebs\/ve do ishte nje plus i madh q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndryshonte, jo vet\u00ebm sjelljen, por edhe gjendjen emocionale t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre krijesave t\u00eb pafajshme.\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nj\u00eb raport i fundit nga Open Data Albania tha se numri i divorceve n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri ka ardhur gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb rritje, ku rezulton se 16 n\u00eb 100 martesa p\u00ebrfunduan n\u00eb ndarje vet\u00ebm vitin e shkuar. \u201c\u2026koeficienti prej 15.7 divorce p\u00ebr nj\u00ebqind martesa n\u00eb vitin 2013 d\u00ebshmon p\u00ebr nj\u00eb etap\u00eb t\u00eb re t\u00eb modelit social t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb shqiptare. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vit p\u00ebr \u00e7do nj\u00ebqind martesa q\u00eb realizohen… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[41],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":22167,"url":"https:\/\/ndiqparate.al\/?p=22167","url_meta":{"origin":7137,"position":0},"title":"Partit\u00eb Politike, Vler\u00ebsimi i Sistemit Komb\u00ebtar t\u00eb Integritetit 2023","date":"May 1, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb artikull po zbardhim rezultate dhe rekomandime p\u00ebr Partit\u00eb Politike, t\u00eb b\u00ebra n\u00eb Raportin Vler\u00ebsimi i Sistemit Komb\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb Integritetit. 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