{"id":7377,"date":"2015-07-13T12:21:08","date_gmt":"2015-07-13T12:21:08","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2015-07-13T12:21:08","modified_gmt":"2015-07-13T12:21:08","slug":"shifra-alarmante-te-divorceve-gezim-tusha-institucioni-i-marteses-ne-rrezik-dhuna-faktori-kryesor-i-ndarjeve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ndiqparate.al\/?p=7377","title":{"rendered":"Shifra alarmante te divorceve. Gezim Tusha: Institucioni i marteses, ne rrezik. Dhuna, faktori kryesor i ndarjeve"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201cLind\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur n\u00ebse di\u00e7ka prishej, ne p\u00ebrpiqeshim ta rregullonim at\u00eb dhe jo ta flaknim tutje\u201d, ishte p\u00ebrgjigja e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti q\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb i martuar p\u00ebr 65 vjet, kur u pyet nga nj\u00eb reporter.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nd\u00ebrsa \u00e7iftet shqiptare q\u00eb i drejtohen gjykat\u00ebs p\u00ebr t`u divorcuar, nuk kan\u00eb m\u00eb asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u201cndrequr\u2019, por jan\u00eb t\u00eb gatshm\u00ebm t\u00eb \u201cflakin\u201d \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb prishur dhe t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb gjith\u00eb pasojat e tjera q\u00eb rrjedhin nga nj\u00eb divorc.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">P\u00ebr \u00e7do 100 martesa q\u00eb jan\u00eb realizuar n\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb vitit 2014 ,18 kan\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar n\u00eb divorc. P\u00ebrdit\u00ebsimet e fundit t\u00eb Open Data Albania lidhur me numrin e martesave dhe divorceve n\u00eb vitin 2014 tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb rritje me dy divorce nga viti 2013 n\u00eb vitin 2014 .\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Rrall\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb q\u00eblloj\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb seancat e nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsimit, nj\u00eb \u00e7ift t\u00eb heq dor\u00eb nga ideja e divorcit dhe t\u00eb gjej\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsin e munguar n\u00eb raportin mes tyre.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">K\u00ebshtu pohon p\u00ebr Tema TV avokati dhe nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsi Jeton Borishi.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201cUn\u00eb personalisht nuk kam pasur raste t\u00eb tilla, pasi rastet q\u00eb jan\u00eb referuar t\u00eb un\u00eb kan\u00eb q\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb kategoris\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb nd\u00ebrprer\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien martesore dhe ka q\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019i pajtosh\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb shprehur Borishi.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">N\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri patriarkale si shoq\u00ebria shqiptare, liria p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjedhur divorcin n\u00eb vend t\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie q\u00eb nuk funksiononte m\u00eb, &nbsp;ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb koncept i papranuesh\u00ebm, aq sa n\u00eb shum\u00eb zona jourbane, por jo vet\u00ebm shpesh ndarja cil\u00ebsohej edhe si turp, sidomos p\u00ebr femrat. Nj\u00eb koncept, q\u00eb edhe pse i zbehur p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb 25 viteve t\u00eb pluralizmit politik, s\u00ebrish mbetet dominant, sidomos n\u00eb shtresat m\u00eb t\u00eb varf\u00ebra t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Duke risjell\u00eb diferencat n\u00eb koh\u00eb, sociologu G\u00ebzim Tushi thot\u00eb se n\u00eb vitet 1960-1970, nuk ishte e leht\u00eb t\u00eb divorcoheshe, pasi k\u00ebrk<span style=\"font-size: 9pt;\">oheshin motive shum\u00eb t\u00eb forta dhe p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr pala q\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte ndarjen p\u00ebrballej me pasoja t\u00eb r\u00ebnda.<\/span>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 9pt;\"><br \/><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201cMartesa e ka patur t\u00eb ndaluar divorcin. Realizimi i divorcit ka q\u00ebn\u00eb ekstremisht i ndaluar. Divorci nuk ka q\u00ebn\u00eb i leht\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr kornizat morale por edhe vet shteti nuk t\u00eb lejonte t\u00eb b\u00ebje divorc p\u00ebr motive q\u00eb nuk konsideroheshin t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, duheshin motive t\u00eb forta, n\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt ishte e pamundur\u201d shprehet G\u00ebzim Tushi.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Por n\u00ebn ndikimin e nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb faktor\u00ebsh koncepti mbi martes\u00ebn ka ndryshuar. N\u00ebse n\u00eb vitet 60-70 &nbsp;b\u00ebhej fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie monogame dhe seksualisht t\u00eb mbyllur, nuk mund t\u00eb themi t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201cMartesa \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb institucion i jet\u00ebs private. Intime, martes\u00ebn e b\u00ebjn\u00eb individ\u00ebt, \u00ebsht\u00eb akt i tyre dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje nuk ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyj\u00eb askush, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb koncepti i ri i martes\u00ebs\u201d n\u00ebnvizon sociologu.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Por \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh me martesat shqiptare dhe pse kjo tendenc\u00eb n\u00eb rritje p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar drejt divorcit?\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201cNj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e madhe e divorceve vijn\u00eb si rezultat i tiranis\u00eb s\u00eb opinionit shoq\u00ebror dhe i fuqis\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb konceptet e vjet\u00ebra mbi martes\u00ebn. Nj\u00eb motiv \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe varf\u00ebria q\u00eb ekziston n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare, por nuk mund t\u2019i veshim varf\u00ebris\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha problemet e martes\u00ebs. Pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e divorceve vijn\u00eb nga dhuna . Qendra e dhun\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb familja, vendi ku ushtrohet m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhun\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb familja mbi t\u00eb cil\u00ebn shkarkohet dhuna fizike dhe verbale. Xhelozia \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb faktor tjet\u00ebr. Duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb xhelozi normale dhe jo patologjike. Gjithashtu edhe teknologjia dhe dixhitalizimi i jet\u00ebs e ka ulur privat\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe ka zbular marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien martesore. M\u00eb pas kemi edhe shkaqe n\u00eb reduktim si konflikti mes nuses dhe vjehrr\u00ebs ose tradhtia\u201d, \u2013 shprehet Sociologu Tushi p\u00ebr Tema Tv\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Divorci m\u00eb par\u00eb frenohej p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb kornizave t\u00eb moralit dhe t\u00eb ideologjis\u00eb s\u00eb dikurshme.\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sot problemet e reja si dhuna, xhelozia, tradhtia, moskomunikimi, diverencat kulturore dhe varf\u00ebria &nbsp;po k\u00ebrc\u00ebnojn\u00eb institucionin e martes\u00ebs . Dhe premtimin e shenjt\u00eb \u201cN\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb e n\u00eb t\u00eb keq\u201d &nbsp;jo t\u00eb gjitha \u00e7iftet e p\u00ebrmbushin,\u201dderisa vdekja t\u00eb na ndaj\u00eb\u201d.\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cLind\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur n\u00ebse di\u00e7ka prishej, ne p\u00ebrpiqeshim ta rregullonim at\u00eb dhe jo ta flaknim tutje\u201d, ishte p\u00ebrgjigja e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti q\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb i martuar p\u00ebr 65 vjet, kur u pyet nga nj\u00eb reporter. Nd\u00ebrsa \u00e7iftet shqiptare q\u00eb i drejtohen gjykat\u00ebs p\u00ebr t`u divorcuar, nuk kan\u00eb m\u00eb asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u201cndrequr\u2019, por jan\u00eb t\u00eb gatshm\u00ebm t\u00eb \u201cflakin\u201d \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb prishur dhe t\u00eb&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[41],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":24847,"url":"https:\/\/ndiqparate.al\/?p=24847","url_meta":{"origin":7377,"position":0},"title":"PPP-t\u00eb: Nga ambicia p\u00ebr investime te realiteti i munges\u00ebs s\u00eb llogaridh\u00ebnies","date":"October 15, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb si mjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur efikasitetin e sh\u00ebrbimeve publike, shum\u00eb prej PPP-ve t\u00eb zbatuara gjat\u00eb dekad\u00ebs s\u00eb fundit jan\u00eb shoq\u00ebruar me dyshime t\u00eb thella dhe evidenca konkrete q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb devijimin e tyre nga standardet e qeverisjes s\u00eb mir\u00eb. 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